Some parent-child arguments about video and computer games are part of 21st century America. So don't panic if you have your share of those. On the other hand, don't ignore signs of a real problem with compulsive playing. Here are some tips to make sure computer and video game playing remains a positive part of your children's lives.

• Set clear ground rules about when, where, how much, and what kind of game playing is allowed as soon as your child starts to play games.
  
• Intervene early before things get out of hand.
  
• Limit video game playing time.
  
• Have clear consequences if time limits are not observed.
  
• Enforce consequences consistently.
  
• Make sure your child is not playing in the middle of the night.
  
• Require that homework and other chores be completed first.
  
• Keep video and computer games out of child's bedroom.
  
• Be firm. Consistently enforce the rules. If your child refuses to cooperate, restrict access to video games for a period of time.
  
• Be clear with your child that constant arguments about game playing will result in loss of game playing privileges.
  
• If nothing else works, go cold turkey. Get rid of the games.
  
• Encourage other activities. Have child help make a list of "Fun Things to Do".
  
• Start a family game night (non-video games).